Episode 33 - Our Wish Lists

In this heartfelt and vulnerable episode of Unfiltered Us, we sit down and share our personal “I wish…” statements — the things we wish for ourselves, for each other, and for our relationship. ❤️

From the sweet to the serious, we open up about growth, insecurities, dreams, habits we want to change, and the ways we hope to become better partners. Some moments get deep, some get funny, and some might hit a little too close to home — but that’s what being unfiltered is all about.

This episode is a raw look inside real relationship reflection and what happens when couples get honest about their needs and hopes. If you love emotional connection, real talk, and couples who keep it authentic, this one’s for you.

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You're listening to unfiltered us, where we keep it real and unscripted. I'm your host, Suzy, along with my husband, Miguel. Ready to dive in? Let's get started. All right. Welcome back, everyone. Another exciting episode, of course. Yes. Welcome, everybody. How are you, my love? Great. Trying to fix my top here? Yes. Fix it. Well, it's gonna stay as it is. You look beautiful, by the way. As always. Awesome. So we got a cool episode today, which is crazy, because you don't know what I have, and I don't know what you have. Uh, you kind of have an you'll. You'll get an idea once I say what I'm going to say. Um, but, you know, I figure the holidays are coming, right? And everybody's got a wish list of things they want for the holidays. And so we have our wish list. Not so much for the holidays, but the things we wish, I guess, out of life and out of ourselves. Oh, gosh, I feel like I failed already at this. No, like I misunderstood the project now. Oh, wow. Well, I told you exactly what it was. Okay, well, it is going to be. What is? Yeah, it is what it is. It is what it is. So it might be funny because we might have completely different ideas of what we were supposed to do. Right. Okay. So you want to start or you got more. I don't have that many. So you have more. So start with yours. Okay. I'm gonna say what I wish for myself. Is that what we want to start with? Okay. Uh huh. Um, for me, I wish I was more olive skinned. Like, not so pale. Okay. Kind of like what? Our daughter skin. Yeah. Yeah, I wish I was more that color. Yeah, I dislike that I'm so white. You don't like that you're white? No. You know, when I was. When I was a kid, I didn't like that I was white, but I think with time, I kind of got, um, I don't know, I kind of, I kind of grew into it. You know, so I like the fact that I'm white skin or light skin, but, you know, usually I, I get ten very nice or very easy. So yeah you do. So that's the benefit of you that is that you could go out into the sun and get that wonderful olive color where I just stay white. It's the Caribbean skin. I, you know, turn red. Yeah. Well I mean it's obviously. Where where you know it's in your genes. But yeah, I know, I see what you're saying, but I just think you just have to just fall in love with it. There's people that love being super pale, like they never go in the sun. Yeah, love being definitely not mean. No, I mean, that's a lot like I said, I wish I don't wish I when I was a kid. Yeah, I didn't like that. I was super white, you know, and that's probably because I never went out on the sun. But now that, you know, every time we go out, even right now, you can't even tell. So I think you're tattoos. Hope that tattoos. Hell. But, you know, even on my face, you can see when I get tan, maybe I'll just tattoo my legs. You can. That's where the only part that I dislike being white is my legs. You can. I mean, it'll give you some accent. I mean, I already have one going down my thigh, so continue with it. I might as well continue with it. All right, so I got one. I wish I actually wish I was taller. Oh. Yeah. You know, it's funny. I I'm five seven, and I don't think I'm, I'm. You're not sure? I don't think I'm sure, but you're not sure. But five seven is considered short. I don't think you're short. I don't I don't think so. You're that tall. It's like you're you're just an average height. Yeah. See, I wish I was a little bit taller. Like the song. Like the song. I wish I was a baller. No, I wish I was a good six feet, like. Yeah. Yes. I love that. See, let's see what I mean. No, I, I it's not that I dislike my height, but I just wish I was taller. I wish I would have, I don't know, grown a little bit more. If that makes sense. You know, I just think, um, when I see people, when I see guys that are like six one, six two or even six feet, you know, and man, they just they just like, man, I look at them and I say, that's a perfect height. I wish I was that height. Yeah. Not like six, five, six seven. Nah, that's not what I'm talking about because those guys are too weird. Not too tall, but just just like. Yeah, like six, six one. I'm good. Anything between six one and six two. Yeah, I would have been perfect. That is true. Maybe my next life. Are we doing again? Our own. Yeah. Because didn't. Wasn't the task. Like what I. Yeah. We'll finish up. Okay. Well, we I just wanted to make sure. Yeah. Actually, my next one is, I wish I was taller, too. No way. I wish I was by five. I know that's crazy to say, but for me, five five is. Yeah, a lot taller than I am. Yeah. No, I get it. And so that's only adding just a few more inches than what you are right now. It's just like me. So that's perfect. If. Yeah, if I was taller and I were taller. Yeah, that would be perfect if we were just a little bit taller than what we are right now. So it's just because I think pants. A lot of women's pants are made for someone who's five, five. Yeah, I think, but yeah, it's it's just hard sometimes. And you even get to a point where you almost have to have custom made clothes, you know. Yeah. To fit, you know, to fit. Because even like me, I'm like, right now I'm in between. I'm a large but I'm not a large. I'm definitely not a medium. But, you know, I mean, it's it's just weird, but. All right, I guess I'll go next. So I guess we, we, we share that the height. Yeah. We share the hype. Probably. Okay. Um, I actually wish I had a deeper voice. Like a singing voice. Like a singing voice or a deeper voice, because there's actually a two different thing. Well, both. Okay. You know, like, I wish sometimes when you're out in, like, um, public place, like, let's say a sporting event and there's guys that go and scream and you can tell they have a loud voice, right? Like a strong, loud voice. I don't have that. You know, you don't think you have that? No, I don't think you're loud. Uh, no. I might I might talk a lot, but I'm not loud. There's people that are louder than me and that have a deeper voice and that, um, have, like, a great singing voice. I wish I had that. You ever. You ever recorded yourself? I think you have a great singing voice. I don't think so. There's times where I record myself. If I'm driving, there's a song and I record it, and. And I play it back and I'm like, oh, no, I'm not posting this one. That's when you lip sync. So your real voice. Well, yeah. But sometimes like they record you, you know, like we go to concerts and you get recorded when you're singing. You know, I, I, I don't know, I just don't think I wish I had a deeper voice, a singing voice. Well, I like your singing voice. Okay, well, I mean, you sing around the house all day, right? But it's not in public. It's not like, you know. I do, I do sing a lot. I that's why I said I wish I had a singing voice so I can like, I see some sometimes I come across videos of like people that are playing like rounders and stuff, and they have such a great voice and I'm like, man, I wish I had that voice, but hey, maybe my next life I'll be taller with a better, better voice. Maybe. Okay, okay. For me, I wish I wasn't a procrastinator. Yep. Just like. Why don't you keep going? Um, what makes you think you're a procrastinator? I mean, I know, I know, I feel, I wish you were I wish you were not a procrastinator also. But what makes you think you are? I want to hear her. So that's funny. You agree with me, but you don't. I just want to hear it. Why? It makes you think why? Why are you a procrastinator? Why am I? Oh, I don't know why I am. I just I feel like it's. I ask you a question. Were you procrastinator as a child? Like, if your parent asked, ask you to do something, you always put it off. Um, or were you, like, on it and you did it? I'm great at timelines. So you were like, I was a last minute person, but I always met the deadline, so you you procrastinate it? Yeah. So when you were little, it was the same thing, I assume. I don't remember not being like this. I'm asking because I think I was a procrastinator when I was a kid, because I remember my mom asked me to do stuff and I always will say like, oh, I'll do it right now, and I will put it off. I'll do it right now, and I put it off. I'll do it right now. And I never got to it until it was like, you better go do this right. You know, she got on my face and then I went and I did it. But as an adult, I don't think I have that anymore. I don't think I. No, no, you're not like that. Yeah. As an adult I, I do my best. Like if I gotta get something, I got in fact, if I'm doing something, do not bother me. Like I'm on a mission to get this thing done because I gotta get it done. So I, I, I see that about you. And obviously it bothers me. I don't know it actually that's actually that doesn't. But sometimes you're, you're getting a lot better though. Like if I say I need something. Right and I need it. When I say I see you, I need you to do something. If I tell you, hey, when you. It was actually part of this year's New Year's resolution not to be a procrastinator. Um, so I do think I'm getting better, because when you do ask me to do something, I do do it right. And when I don't see you do it, it like. It like gives me anxiety. Yeah. It irks you when I tell you, hey, don't worry about it. Not right now. Tomorrow, when you get a chance, it's not important. But if I say, hey, I need this done. But even like that, I still do it. Because then I feel like I'm going to forget. Well, that's a good to ask. Part of your resolution, then, that you wanted to get done because you even if I even if I tell you when you get a chance tomorrow or whatever, and you do it right then and there, it helps you in doing things so you don't forget. Yeah. No, I feel like I've gotten better, but I'm definitely not 100% that I do agree that you have gotten way better on, on, um, you know, getting things done. But when I ask you to do it, I don't see you're moving. I'm like, it gives me anxiety because I'm like, I need this, like, right now. All right. So the procrastination. Okay. Um, I actually wish I knew how to play an instrument. Like, that's easy to learn. I, you know, you're absolutely right. Maybe that's going to be one of my New Year's resolutions next year. It's to learn how to play something. The guitar. I think the guitar will be cool, but I wish I knew how to play an instrument. I don't know. You don't know? There's not one specific. I would probably say the guitar, just because I wouldn't want to get like a drum set or anything other bigger than that. I think a guitar is pretty cool. You can store it. You can take it in your car and go someplace. Yeah, so I am I might do that next year. Well, our, um, our cousin Adrian, he learned to play on YouTube. I remember he said that, and he actually plays pretty good. He actually plays really good. I remember when he was doing this. I remember this is when they lived in their other home. I remember he bought a guitar and he was, you know, he said he was watching it on YouTube. So that that's going to be one of my New Year's resolutions next year. My guitar. And yeah, to learn that collector's uh uh, no no no, it's just. Yeah. But I wish it would be. There's nothing better than when you know how to play an instrument. The guitar, you know, you bust it out and you start singing. Yeah, but then again, you don't have to see what he said. What do I do with the boys now? Now, what do you do with the voice? Uh. Nobody recorded. Please. All right, what'd you guys. You're gonna. You're gonna play the instrumental version? Yeah. Someone else sing. Somebody else sing. Okay, I wish I wasn't so shy. Um, I think in the right environment, you're not. I think we're even myself. I think I'm shy in some cases. You know, I need a little bit of liquor. Courage. Yeah. I need some curtilage to, like, let myself be. Yeah, but if it. I'm usually pretty good about being myself. It's if it's around people that I know. Yeah, but once, like, I, I'm in a room full of people I don't know. Or even if there's, like, 2 or 3 people I don't know, suddenly you're super quiet. I get into, like, a whole, um, yeah, I get into this little hole, and I just did not come out of it, you know, by by nature, I'm an introvert because I remember being super shy as a kid. But then again, as an adult, I'll talk to anybody anytime. But yeah, there's times where I go places and I'm just quiet. You know, if I'm in a if, if I'm definitely in a bad mood, I'm definitely not talking. Oh yeah. But, um. Oh, I know, but if I, uh, if I'm in the right mood. Yeah, I'm definitely talking. But. Yeah, I see what you're saying. So I wish I was a little more out there without the liquid courage. Well, I mean, you can work on that one as well too. Okay, I, I actually wish I would have played baseball when I was a kid. I think I would have been a great baseball player. Yeah. Yeah, I think, you know, like, what position? Um. Second shortstop. Maybe. Maybe maybe one of those two. Okay. Yeah, I think I, um, I picked the wrong sport. You know, I, I play soccer for a long time, and then. Then I play basketball. Even when I moved here, I played basketball in high school. Volleyball and baseball, for whatever reason, was always there. And I'm from a country where all these baseball players are freaking, you know, famous and they're really good. And I remember as a kid being seeing other kids being signed by the scouts that would go get them, you know, and it never interests me as a kid. But knowing, not knowing what I know now and knowing how much I grew and my my physique in my body, I'm like, I'm probably made for a baseball, probably a short baseball player, but I think I would have been a better I would, it would have been a better sport for me. I could see you as a baseball than soccer, and then, uh, then soccer and then basketball. So, yeah, it's one thing I wish if I could go back as I would have picked up. A bat and a ball. Faster! Here you go. I, uh, I have one more. Than you. Because I had five. Well, no, I. After that one, um. Oh, no. Yeah, that was actually. Uh, no, no, I have one more. Oh. Okay. Good. Yeah. Um, I wish I was tougher and wouldn't give in so much, like, express myself. Mhm. Okay. And you feel like you give in too much. I do, I give in a lot. It's part of your personality. Yeah. Like I just rather not. I can see that. I can see that. And that's what makes you any different. And sometimes where there's things that happen and I ask you what did you do? And you're like, ah. And I'm like, no, I would never done that. You know, like maybe in that aspect I'm a little bit tougher. Yeah. No, I'm not a tough person at all. Yeah. I don't know how to stand up for myself. Do you, do you feel like it's something you want to work on? Are you okay? Just. I mean, I'm okay with being, like, in some instances, I wish I. I would have stood up for myself. But it doesn't happen too often. But I think back at those instances and I think, man, I really should have stood up for myself. I wish I had the guts to stand up for myself. Yeah. You get that from your dad? Oh, absolutely. Yeah. I don't know how to express it. Like I don't know how to say. Yeah. Okay. Uh, I mean, I, I know what you're saying it, but it it's it's it's just in your DNA. You know, because when some certain situations that would happen to you would happen to me, I would for sure have wouldn't even think about it twice on saying something. Yeah, I know, that's why I like when you're around, because you kind of do it for me. Well and well, maybe that's what. Imagine if we were both. Yeah, maybe that's why. So maybe that's why I'm not meant to be that person. Yeah. And, you know, I think the compliments we compliment one another with that, you know. Okay, I got one more. And this is kind of like a wish that I know I can have right now, but maybe next year I'm. I'm maybe besides the guitar. Okay. I wish I had a convertible. Oh, okay. Yeah. You have been wanting one for a while. Mhm. And I wish when I bought my car I would have bought a convertible instead of my car right now. But again I nothing I can do to go back. But it's something that for sure is in my bucket list to buy me a convertible car. It can happen. Yeah. What do you have? One specific. I know it, but say it. Yeah, I like that, I like. I've always liked that Mercedes SL. Mhm. The 550 or the 500 if it's an older one. Yeah it's a two seater. So I think it would be perfect for you and I if we were, you know, to go out when you want to hear a hose, you know, I can only take one at a time. So I chose you first. But if you want me to go with somebody else, I mean, I'm open to it. Oh, I bet you are. I'll just keep the top up. Oh, wow. So that there's no evidence. Yeah, I know, that's smart. I don't even know that's actually released. I don't need to be know. Nobody needs to know what's going on. Okay, so now are we going on each other like. Yeah. Uh, okay. So did you, do you finish your five already? Well I did, yes, I finished my five. But for you I only have four. So there you go. I thought you had five and five. No, I have five and four. Okay. So so perfect. I couldn't think of another one. You know what? It it took me. It was. I had a hard time trying to figure it out. Things that I wish about you so. So these are things we wish about. We would that you would change about yourself, of each other, of each other. Okay. So for me, the first one is I actually wish you wore more suits. Ah, I don't I don't have a problem with that. I love you in suits. I think you look so handsome in suits. But I know that we don't really live like in a town where, like. Yeah, you would normally wear suits, like somewhere like New York or. Right. Even California, you know. Right. Right. Where it's common for like, almost like everyday where especially like if you go to the office or something like that, but. You in a suit. Well, what's crazy is that I have a lot of suits, but they don't fit now. They don't fit me anymore. Not even bigger. They don't fit me anymore. You got in swole. Not the jackets. Don't fit me anymore. And so. But I do have a lot of suits. And I do love wearing suits. And. Yeah, I think I agree with you. We're even though we're in the in the business that we're in. Um, I don't know. I've just never really. Um, it's, you know, I just, I, I love, I love when I meet with the client, and I can, I can dress nice, but not. But I can not overwhelm you. Yeah. Because I think that sometimes could be intimidating. Now, if we did live in New York. Chicago. Um, because even some attorneys you see right now, they dress super casual. Yeah. I think it's just because it's Vegas. Vegas is super casual, especially during summertime. Yeah. You know, I mean, everybody wants to wear. Nobody wants nobody wear a suit. But. Yeah, definitely. If we live, you know, somewhere like in Chicago or New York or one of these, you know, Metropolis that had that downtown. And I worked out of a office Monday through Friday. Absolutely. Uh, but I think even when you speak, like Monday nights, when you speak at the office to wear a suit, I mean, that's easy. That's doable. I just honestly, I don't know, you just don't I. Well, first of all, the issue is your suits don't fit you anymore. This that I have. Don't fit me I. And I don't know what size I am right now. I knew exactly what size I was before, you know, I. I don't want to say I got big, but, you know, before I started. Whoa. Before I got buff, you know. No, no, no, I'm not. I'm nowhere near buff. There's guys way bigger than me. But yeah, definitely this, this that we have right here don't fit me, but I have to go get size. I don't even know what size I am right now. Yeah. So. All right, here's my here's my first oh, gosh. About. Okay. God, I've told you this before. Oh I wish you had longer legs. I know. Well, that's what the the tall ness would be. I know you said I wish when you when I said I wish I was telling you said you I wish you were tall. I'm like, man, I wish you had longer legs. I mean, I love your legs, my legs. You. What do you mean you don't want my arms to be this? Your arms are. I think your arms are taller. Not so much longer. Legs. Well, you can be taller and still have. I guess there's people that have long torsos. Oh, you know, and there's girls that have long legs proportioned. Is that weird? Okay. And I'll tell you why I think I am, because in yoga there's certain moves that people could do. And I don't know if it's just because I'm short and I have short arms, but you should be able to do certain moves in yoga, and I can't do them because my arms are not long enough. And obviously that's my. So that's why I also wish I was a little taller, because there's certain things I cannot do, like physically cannot do because I'm so. So if you were, if you had longer legs and you were a little taller, then you'd probably have longer arms. So I guess if it's all proportioned, it's all proportioned that way. But okay, okay. My next one for you was I wish you had more hoes. Oh, why are you saying this right now? Actually, I'm just saying I wish you had more friends. Um, I wish you had friends like that are not just my friends. The reason that you have friends is because they're my friends. But I wish you had friends. We talked about, like, a best friend. You know, we talked about this. And on the other, I know we have, but I wish you had friends. I, I, I, I don't know, it's it's it's I, I know we were saying, but I, I, I really don't yeah, I really don't I really just want one good friend because it'd be nice if, uh, like if I go out with my friends. You had a friend to hang out with. Maybe they're out there somewhere. Maybe. Yeah, maybe. Maybe. I don't know. Maybe. Okay. Uh. Let's see. And by the way, you guys, that maybe one more explanation on this topic. We did have, uh, another episode where we talked about friendships. Right? Yeah. And we discussed that a lot more into details in regards to friends. Quote unquote. The word friends. Okay. Uh, man, I stop I, I wish you stop creeping up on me unannounced. I don't do that on purpose. I, I just walk. Like the way I show up out of nowhere. It's funny how now I have to announce myself, like, hey, I'm coming in the room. Yay! You don't have to make an eye. You don't have to announce yourself, but you have to make some sort of a noise. But I just walk in. You're going to give me a heart attack one of these days when you show up, I'm thinking about myself in a in any room in the house, and all of a sudden I turn around and you're there and I'm like, I was so focused on what you're doing that you don't pay attention to the noise around you. That could be true to at least say something just like, hey, babe, where you at? Or I'm coming up here, or you want a glass of water or something, you know? Yeah, yeah. And now is yourself. Because that's scary to announce myself, but I don't. But I just don't understand how you don't hear me. I'm like SpongeBob when Gary walks in and says, Gary? Yeah. I know I that that that I wish you would do. Go ahead. Okay, well, this goes along with what you said. I wish you were a tiny bit taller. Oh, I see, man. Yeah. Okay. We're in sync. Yeah. Just a little bit. Just a tiny bit taller. That's all. Yeah. Not that much, but just a tiny bit. Yeah, just a little bit. Okay. Foot is good. Yeah. Okay. So, uh, I wish you stop reading my mind. Uh, I can't help that. Well, I told you today, I said, I know, because I did. I was gonna say something all day, and I was like, I'm not gonna say it all the time. And then you said it, and I said, oh, see it? See, I knew, I knew he was thinking. Every time it never fails. I'm thinking something. And all of a sudden he's like, hey, do you want to da da da da? And I'm like, oh my God, I was just thinking about. It happens at least four times a week. Yeah, it happens all the time. Probably even more. All the time where you're all. And then when I tell you something, there's times where I say it first. Where I'm thinking and I tell you. And you're like. How much I was just reading your mind. Because I was just thinking about that. You're great at that. Yeah. And not that I wish that you would stop, because obviously it doesn't bother me. It just. It's just. It's weird. It freaks me out in a sense. You know? It freaks me out. But it's like, man, she's so good at it, you know? But, yeah. Yeah, well, I don't know how I, how how come I have this superpower, but it is it, it literally is a superpower. So I honestly do not know how I got them. Okay. I actually wish you wouldn't hold grudges. I'm getting better at it. That's. That's one thing I. I'm getting better at it. Yeah. Yes and no. Yeah. I mean, it depends on the person. Well, you know what? Honestly, there's there's that I can think of off the top of my head. There's there's a lot of people that I don't. Um. I don't care for. Yeah. If that's the word I can use for. I don't hate them. I don't hate people. I just dislike some of the stuff that they might have done. Yeah. Um, and there's some that I choose not to talk and there's some that I do see that, you know, I don't care for. And I still say hi to them. Yeah. You know, but, um, that, uh, off the top of my head is just one person that right now is just like, I, I really have zero here for. But. Yeah, but at the same time, um, I'm, I see what you're saying as far as the grudges, but I think the old me would have, probably would have said something, even though if I'm holding a grudge. Yeah. Like I'm gonna let it be known by saying something. Yeah, yeah. And now it's just a silent treatment. Uh huh. I, I can see that. So that's why I think I'm getting better at it. But again, I'm open. If they do the right thing, I'm open to talk and I'm open to relationships. Yes, they do the right thing. Do you have to say that if they were to. Yes. Try or at least try to have a conversation? Yeah. Might be willing where I think the Omegle would have just been like, no. Yeah. If you I don't even want to talk to you. Correct. That's what I'm saying I think I think right now the ball's on their court and, and if they were to make the move to make things better, um, I would be open to it. I'll talk and I'll be open to it. But in this particular scenario, for me to be able to initiate, it's out of I it's I'm not I'm not going to do it. Make sense. Yeah. So but yeah when it comes down to like holding grudges I, I was bad at that. I was and maybe it was my, you know the cancer in me. You know my personality but I, I want to say I've gotten better at it. I'm not perfect. Nobody's perfect. Yeah. Unfortunately. And I'm not, you know, um. I don't know. Overall, I think I consider myself a good person, but I just don't like on right. Oh, what's the word on righteousness? Is that the word I'm looking for? Is that even a word? I don't know if I don't understand. I just don't I, I, I I'm the type of person that dislike when things are not done the right way, and especially when they gave you their word that they were going to do it. If that makes sense. When I see someone and even even bothers me in in our business, you know, when I see people in our business that do things half way or do things the lazy way, or do things not the right way, and it really bothers me because I know it's not being done right. You know, so when someone else goes and does something that's not right and they do it the wrong way, and it hurts a lot of people that you love and care for, then I just that that action that was not done right. Bothers me big time. I mean. Yeah. That's you. Yeah, I mean, I I'm, I'm, I'm not denying it. I'm explaining it, but that's just me. You know, that's just my character. That's just. But like I said, I am open to talk and I am open to make things right and move forward. But the ball is in their court. So very true. That's that's that's how I view it. Yeah. So anything else you have another one? No, that was it. That's all I had. Yeah. Well you didn't have uh, I have one more, but I don't know if I'm gonna say it. Really? Why? I don't know. I don't want to put you in the spot. Oh, gosh. Now I'm scared. Why? I don't know. Why don't you want to put me on this? Is it bad? It's not bad. Oh, okay. Um, would you have gotten better at it? Okay. But. And it wasn't until I brought it up, I think a couple of times that you got better at it, but. Oh, gosh, now I'm really scared. I wish it didn't make, uh, such a big mess when you cook. Oh, I've definitely got it better like you have. You really, really better. You have? Yeah. No, I agree 100%. But no, that was that was it. It was just too much stuff all over the place. Yeah. We just have two different styles of preparing food. Yeah, yeah, but you've got him better at it. Oh, 1,000%. So you have less to wash now? Exactly. Just wash as you go. You know. No, I just use less stuff now. Like before, if I needed, um, something, I would just go get a clean one rather than using the one I already use, or. You know what I mean. Like washing the one I already used and reusing it. You used the whole kitchen one? Yeah, I used the kitchen. The whole kitchen. Like every pot we had, we ran out of, like, spatulas. Like you're such a liar. That has. The dishwasher took three loads. You were such a liar. That is such a lie. Don't even believe that. Felt that way. People do not believe that. It felt that way. It felt that way. But anyways. But I've got it better. Yeah, I know you have. And I think, you know a lot of these stuff. Um. You know, we've worked on it. You know, we've worked on it at one point. You know. Um, you know, like the grudging part of it or this thing, you know, we worked on those things for us to get better and improve. So. But that was it, my love. All right. Short and sweet episode. Till next time. It's our wish list. Our wish list? Yeah. Unfortunately, there's some things that cannot change, though. We work on it. I can't get taller. Yeah, you can stretch. I stretch every. I stretch Monday through Friday. There are surgeries where people can get taller. Remember when they. I know we looked at it. They add that they add extra bone to like there. I mean, it's ridiculous. I won't do it. And it's extremely expensive. So. No, I think I'd rather stay a short king. Yeah, I don't think you're that short. Well, I mean, compared to what society is, but I don't think you're short. I know, but see, the word average and me just don't go along. Do you understand? I'm sure there's. I'm not even average for women. I'm sure there's just nothing average about me. I know I am completely. It's like I shouldn't even say that. Yeah, it's it's just weird. It's just. But you're definitely not short. I'm short. Yeah. Like, for. For women. I'm short. I'm not even average, which is a good thing, because, I mean, I guess if you were, my height would be fine. But if you were taller, I wouldn't wear couldn't wear heels I like I could wear heels around you. Yeah. And still like, not that I love that I could wear heels and you're still taller than me. Yeah, that's a benefit. I guess, given what we have, we're perfect then. Yeah. Because that's that's a that's as tall as we're gonna get. So. All right. Awesome. Next pint. Yes. We'll see you guys next time. Hope you enjoy this short and sweet episode episode today. I love you guys. Love you. Love you babe. Love you. Bye bye bye. Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Unfiltered Us. If you enjoyed this conversation, don't forget to hit that follow button so you never miss an episode. We'd love to hear your thoughts, drop a comment, and join in the conversation. If you think someone else will enjoy today's chat, go ahead and share this episode with them. Your support means the world to us. 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