Episode 27 - Meet The Bestie

What happens when Susie sits down with her bestie Steph? Non-stop laughs, a little tea, and some real talk you don’t want to miss. 😂 In this episode, the two best friends chat about life, friendship, relationships, and all the random things that come up when you give besties a mic. Expect hilarious stories, inside jokes, and some surprisingly deep moments too.

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Transcript

You're listening to unfiltered us, where we keep it real and unscripted. I'm your host, Suzy, along with my husband, Miguel. Ready to dive in? Let's get started. Well, welcome. I have a special guest today, which I'm so excited about because it's the bestie. Oh, everyone. I'm happy to be here. My bestie. I feel like I have to say your name, because anytime I ever talk about you on the podcast is just bestie or best friend. I don't know if anyone knows your name, but those I know know why. Okay, this is true. So this is Steph or Stephanie. I don't I know you don't really care for Stephanie. I know it is weird to say your name, actually. You're a government name. Just Miss Steph 702. That's fine, I know. Follow her if you aren't already. Which is funny. I the funny story about following you. So let's just go right into it. The reason why I know about you. The reason why I'm here, y'all. If anyone doesn't know that story. Miguel used to follow you and back. Obviously in Instagram days you could see what people would like before. So it's almost like Instagram would tell on you. And I noticed that my husband was liking your pictures and I'm like, who is this girl? I remember, by the way. Okay. That's good. That means he was good because he didn't slide in the DMs. No no, no. Um, and I'm like, who is this? And so I of course, I go on to your profile and I'm like, she's gorgeous. I could see why he's following her. And then I noticed we also had a mutual friend, which is our friend Karen. And I was like, okay, well, Karen knows her and she can't be too bad. But of course I brought it up to my husband and I'm like, why are you following this girl? We do not know her. I was a little toxic back then, but I'm not anymore. And then I was like, no, you need to hit that unfollow button. And he of course he did, like a good husband. And then, uh, many years, I don't know how many years later, but Karen did a party for me for my birthday, and I told her, you invite whoever you want, then, like, okay, she was super sweet, did the whole, like, hookah thing. And I'm like, who are you inviting? Dun dun dun dun dun. And then she said your name. And I'm like, oh. And of course, I already had known about you because then we started having more mutual friends. And I'm like, of course, I immediately got super nervous for my husband, which is funny. Which I had no idea. Yeah. So all of this is going in the background and you have zero clue. And I'm like, oh my gosh, my husband's about to meet one of his Instagram crushes, right? And we get there and you guys are already at the place, right. And of course I see you. And I'm like, he looks just like her pictures of course. And I'm like looking at my husband like, let's see how he read. Wait, do you have any idea I was gonna be there? Yeah, he did, he did. No, I don't know. I don't know, I want to say yes. If you ask him, he says no. Okay. No. And before I really got there, I asked Karen, like, how is she? Is she nice? Is like, because I mean, anyway, I didn't know anything about you, but of course I wasn't. I didn't want obviously someone rude either at my party. But I know Karen of course, spoke highly of you and was like, no, she's super sweet. She's like a really sweet girl. And I'm like, okay. And so, yeah, you were there. And that's how I met you. My boyfriend like that goes, yeah, you go like shit. What's funny is that if you ask my husband also, he's like was because, like, I knew you guys were going to be best friends. It's like I was trying to put you guys together. Is like, we're gonna be best friends. So technically, he manifested our friends. Yes, yes, which is true. Yeah, it is true. I mean, I met you and I'm like, oh, my gosh, it's so gorgeous. Oh, I remember your being. I think you had like a polka dotted. Oh, I did and then that was it I think the rest. All right? Yes. Um. Instantly became friends. Yes. You actually were so nice to me at first. Like, you know, because I have trust issues. But you were nice. I think, like, probably a year. Yeah. Like me. Like a year to finally. Like. All right, let me break down your what? Girl? Girl. Let me in. I'm nice like bro. All the good morning texts and all the sweet things. Oh, my. Oh. So nice. I love it here. But yeah. Up until you tell me the story. I couldn't believe it. Cuz I didn't know I had no. Yeah, I actually just told you this story not that long ago. I remember when I told you I'm like, friend, I have something to tell you. And you're like, what? I you're a clue. I had no idea where to go. Follow me. I didn't know he liked my photos. I did not know you asked him who I was. Like, oh, you're clueless. Hanging out with y'all. Like. That's my best friend now. Like, now you're the third wheel, sir. Yes, he's absolutely the third wheel. He knows it. Oh, but we love that. So let's get to know more about you. So who's Steph? Who is my bestie? Oh, no. Um, well, my name is Stephanie. I. I thought, there's so many things to say. I. I work in the industry. I manage a nightclub, manage and survive the day. I do a lot of other things. Entrepreneur, all that good stuff. And it's a lot more fun. Too much. So if you ever want a table, let me know. Y'all all right? Yes. The best line nightclub, if you like. Yes, yes, it's a good vibe. It's a great time. Plus, you get to see stuff in a thong. That's always a friend. Yeah, it's always a great thing. Fishnets and a thong. Booty hanging out. I mean, who could complain about that? No, this girl did it. Oh my God, Martin, he read. Maybe a little bit about me. I know there's so many things, is there? You're in love with your dog, obviously. Okay. Yes. Okay. We're going down. Okay. So I have a dog I love him with all my life. Um. I'm single. I don't know if I'm ready to mingle. I'm like, yeah. Everyone that knows me knows I have a highly dislike towards men. I don't know if they should. But I have two beautiful one too. Um. What else? Okay, you ask a question. You're toxic. Is your spike? Yes. You know, if I don't go outside because he says nothing. Yeah, I've gotten that many a times outside. I want to go home because my dog is. And that's it. There's nothing wrong with that. That's your man. My man. Baby. Oh, everything's my everything. Um. I work a lot that you do. Sometimes I have to, like, know. And I'm so sorry. Uh, hello? Can I get some quality time with you? I know you're working a lot, but, uh. And you have patience with me, and I appreciate that so much. Like, you have no idea. And I feel terrible. There's I, I know there's times where I'm like, no friend, I can't. And then you still, like, work your way in, and I'm like. Like fuck. Well, I try. Any way I can. Well thank you. Appreciate it. Because, you know, I'm an anti-social. Yes you are. Which is so funny to me that you work in an industry where you have to be around so many people. That's why, like, that's when you're like, nope. My social media goes out. That's true. I go, dad for a few days and I come back and it's bad. It's a terrible habit to have, I swear to God, but I'm trying to work through it. Um, now, be more social with my friends and whatnot. Going out more? Yeah, but it's hard, right? How do we deal with a lot of people? I know that's one thing about is that we're complete opposites, first of all. And that's how I think that our friendship works so well. I mean, they should take a guess who's the nice one. I think one time I put that story up, like, I put, like, one of us is super nice. And actually, everybody thought that I was the main one. My DMs were like, you're the main one, aren't you? And I'm like, Susie. I'm like, no, I'm not the mean one, actually. Why do you get that from me? Because you're serious. Maybe, I don't know. I'm smiling to you at the same time, so I have no idea. Maybe. Maybe because I'm super quiet, I don't know, I think I'm a medium. Like I'm nice. And me. Yes, but definitely when someone's on your bad side, they're on your bad side forever. Yeah. There's no coming back from that. Yeah, you can see it all over your face. Yup. Bam! You know, right there in that. Oh, yeah. You don't like you? Oh, yeah. When I see your face change. When we're talking to them like, oh, that is someone she does not like. Not a fan. No. It's always a reason, y'all. Okay. I'm not a dick. Yeah, that's always the reason why I don't like people. Um, but, yes, I'm the mean friend. She's a nice friend, and we get along very well. What's so funny is that you're such like. You have trust issues. I have zero trust issues. Like, I believe everybody and everything you tell me, and you're like, no friend. Like, don't believe that. I understand why I'm like, wait, what? You don't think? Yeah. It's always our goal. Ah, our conversations are always like, oh, yeah, like I believe it. And then I tell the story. She's like, no friend. Like, no, I believe that. All right. You're like, that's definitely how your outlook of life is. So. So then I'm like, should I not believe it? It might be wrong here. You know, I'm sorry. No, I mean, I guess you're protecting me in a way in case something ever does happen. You're like, yeah, I told you, it's because my mind wanders. Like, I think so many scenarios of something, and I think negatively. To like how people may think, I don't know, it's weird. Like. Like, no, there's no way they're telling the whole truth, I don't know. Yeah. I mean, and, like, my brain doesn't work that way. So I'm like, okay, what's this? Is this. I'm like, okay, maybe I should double think these because I'm like, yeah, for sure. Everything that anybody tells me is for reals. Like, uh, I'm gullible that way. I wish I had that I can and I always find that silver lining somewhere very positive. I love that about you. You're optimistic to see, and that's great. So I guess we feed each other off. You know me. You balanced me for sure. Like you're sweetness and you're like, positivity. Help me. You're like the little light at the end of the sun. I'm like, okay, everything's fine. Sometimes I'd be like, girl, you need to calm down. You're too mad or you're to this. No, you're definitely a positive. Thank you. So besides being opposite, we're great travel partners. We love traveling together. You're like, the only person like, oh, thank you. We do. We've been to a lot of Dodger games. Yeah, we've been out of the country together. Remember that year we went out of town every month? Yes, I remember that year, we're like, okay, this is the year. Every month we're going somewhere. We went to college, like every month we would we would literally we would go on a plane to go have dinner and Cali and come back the next day. Yeah, just like that. We, uh, I introduced you to a spa in California, which you absolutely love, which I'm trying to get you to go back. Glenn ivey Glenn Ivey. Great time guys. Yes. The best. And obviously we're Dodger fans. So we go to Dodger games thanks to you. And we taught me like, oh, the baseball and how it works and stuff I love she loves going on hello Kitty nights. I do, but I we always try to go on nights that they're giving a waste of. So we could get something nice. This year we got a sweater. It wasn't hello Kitty, but yeah. Yes sweater. It was a women's appreciation sweater or something like that, which is really nice and ended up getting really cold. So we ended up wearing it that night. I didn't remember anyone. Oh. Um, we've been to Mexico, and that's where we discovered, like, a whole yacht thing with DJ and music and like, we're like, this is the best time ever. Girl party on the yacht. Oh, that's the best. So the first time we did it, it was just, um, your other friend Miguel. His friend? Yes. Which he just happens to be named, like my husband. So there's two Miguel's. So you have a Miguel. That's how we say it to your Miguel or my Miguel. So when we're talking about the Miguel, we're like, You're Miguel or Maya Miguel. Um, we ended up doing that to Cabo. We all went to Kabul for the first time, and we ended up on a yacht. We had a great time. Probably drank a little too much, but it was so much fun. It was the greatest time. Like going out of the country or anywhere with you guys was us for like, I, I can't no, no, no way. Like everyone has different I mean you know about the other trips but like, you know, like we vibed together perfectly. Yes. And we're not disagreeing on things we all, like, want to do the same thing. Yeah. We want to actually do stuff. And there's something just wonderful about people who don't have restrictions on fighting. I know just because we've experienced, uh, traveling with other people who are like, oh, like, look, I understand if you guys have, you know, like, maybe can't, but maybe they'll consider going if, you know, kind of how we are, you you're not able to go places with your friends, like out of the country, just, you know, stay home. It's fine. You don't have to go. Yeah. Because we do the most. We do do the most and we plan everything ahead of time. Mhm. So we have an itinerary already. So. Yeah. Us for that story. Uh, yeah. We do it. We do the most for sure when it comes to our trip. It's like there's no. There's no spending limit. We're like, no, whatever. We want that boat. No, we want the the chef on the boat. They want employees and staff. Yeah, like they are. This year was a great time. Yeah, I'm in parasailing. That was so much fun. My first time parasailing? Yeah. Initiated. You did? I'm like, I'm done. Let's do it. We didn't even think twice about it. We just got on that boat. No. Nice. You know, we're above the ocean. Yes. Which one was your favorite trip? You would say after out of all the ones we've been to. Honestly, I feel that being the are was the best time. But the the first few times going to travel with you guys was fun. Yeah, you popped my cherry. Thank you. And then because you'd never been to Mexico. Uh, no. No. And, um. Where are we going? A yacht right away. No, that was the time of my life. There's food on there. Free drink? Well, not free paid for it. Right on. Inclusive. Yeah, that was beyond, like, the best trip. Yeah. And it's cheap, what I know. See, that's the thing about Mexico. Like, I love going to Mexico because everything is just so much cheaper. Like you, my next goal is to go to Mazatlan and get a whole banda on a boat. We've been trying. Yeah, that's what we need to do. Eat and oysters and like, you know, all that Mexican stuff like culture, right? Yo, it's just so nice. Where's that little drunk? Yeah, I wanted I want to play the drums. Like, whatever. Like, give it to me. I might be extremely bad, but just work with me. Banda. Like I like all of this is playing. Yeah, yeah, everything's off tune. It's definitely her time to shine her best. I would say so when it was the four of us, because we'd been to couple several times with other people, and it's just not as fun because everybody wants things for things and stuff like that. But, um, but when we went, the four of us, the only thing is that I would do different when we go back because the four of us is to stay at Rio, because the first time the four of us, we stayed at a place called breathless, which was nice because it was on the beach and stuff like that, but it was kind of, yeah, the music was not in Rio. Like you guys may think real, like a little ghetto or whatnot, but man, we had a time of our lives there. Like, I would recommend that. Yes, because they had themed parties. And one thing I found that at least the Latin places we've been to like D.R. and they, they don't play Spanish music. And I'm like, why don't you play Spanish music? I'm in Mexico or I'm in the D.R. like, that's what I want to hear. I come here to hear reggaeton or whatever. Yeah, no, it's because I care for it. It's so sad. And so I'm like, real was actually would play Spanish music. Actually they would be great about playing English and Spanish, which is how it should be. Yes. They had wonderful shows at night. So. Rio should sponsor us since we put them on this podcast. Tag them. I know. Hey, can you get free? Free nights or whatever? I know, please, we want to go back. So that's the only thing I think I would do different is stay there. The four of us. The last one was very bougie. Um, you didn't like it at all? We were isolated from everything. Yes, and it was just so loud. Yeah, and it's crazy because I love bougie, obviously. But, Suzy, if you guys don't know, she's very extra and she is bougie most of the time. The fact that she's saying she wants to buy it is crazy to me up there. And this resort in particular, I don't remember the name, but it was just so plain. It was like desert vibes. It was horrible. It was absolutely horrible. I'm like, you guys don't eat. They didn't even play music. I don't remember them. It was quiet and I'm like, no, I'm not looking. I don't want this. I don't need this in my life. I want loud, I want ratchet. I want to shake my booty, you know? Yeah. So I would not be going back to that place for sure. The thing is that I. And I always said that I want to create a hotel that's super bougie, but is very ratchet at the same time. Like, I need a if. And anybody knows the answer to this question, give it to me because I want a place I could stay in this luxurious hotel where it's absolutely gorgeous, but they will play like ratchet music. I believe in you. You're gonna get this hotel. I'm gonna either find your. I'm gonna make it. Yeah. Got it. Blueprint. Yeah. Where are we putting it? Where are we putting it? No, I don't know. Yeah. Maybe Mexico. They need an extra hotel like that. Ratchet, but bougie at the same. I can't be the only one who's ever thought like, we need a hotel like this. I don't think anyone knows we ratchet, friend. Yeah, I don't think. Oh my gosh. Well, when we first got the pool that year, everybody knew I was ratchet. That was the year. That was the year you want the ratchet activity. Yes, we. But the parties were lit. That was I promise, I felt like I almost had a party here at the house every weekend. It felt that way every Sunday. Guaranteed wretchedness on Sundays. Yeah, yeah, it was just girls I wouldn't have. Guys, you know. And it's not that I just. It's just that a lot of the girls didn't even want to bring their guys. They wanted to do the whole wretchedness by themselves, which is perfectly fine. And my husband stays out the way anyways, like he's. He'll come and check on you like you guys need anything, but then he'll go right back inside, so don't bother there. He understands the assignment every time. And so that year, the pool year boy, that was the greatest type that what. Yes. Yeah because I we finished the pool in 2021. And so yeah that was amazing. I have not had a party like this where it ended on my birthday. I did the birthday one, which if you were here, oh, it was just a lot. And then which my birthday's in December and then come 2022. But there was no more parties. Yeah, I have my because the pool was built in 2021 and then it went all the way till my birthday, which is December, and then 2022. I felt like I haven't had a ratchet party. I felt since then. Yeah. I know, but we need them. I always say that we. I'm going to make one happen. Like I'm going to send out invite those away. It just doesn't happen. Everyone's like busy. Yeah. I feel like everything just went. Everyone started doing different things, and then we just never had one again. Right. We need everything. Maybe your birthday is coming up. If you guys want to send gifts, contact. Contact me. I'm her middleman. Like I you. You have to get through me, I ask her. Actually, what's funny is that sometimes I do get DMs like that. Like, hey, can you tell your friends that I'm, like, telling my friends to have nothing for you? Like, no, it ends here. I will not rely on a message. And no, I will not be relaying no message. Can you tell your friend stuff to look at her DMs? No, I will not be telling her that. The fact that you're not the only one that says that no is not gonna happen. I'm sorry. She hates men, so she's not even a respond to you. You know, I just need to come up with a feature where they're able to send. Yeah, because I always get asked for like a Cash app or stuff like that. And I'm like, I'm not going to. Because if I engage, you think that's an invitation to start a conversation? It's not even. Yeah, offer me money. I was I just hey, I like money and that's it, you know? Yeah. Why do I have to engage in conversation? You're my cash app or. Or what is that on Venmo or whatever. Put it on your on your profile. This is my cash app. Yeah, this is my cash app. This is my Venmo. Yo, people might think I'm a, uh, gold digger if I do that. I'm not. I'm far from a gold digger, but not that bright girl. I know you do how to do it, because sometimes even me, as the best friend of my friend. Let's go. I'll pay for it. And you're like, no. And I'm like, why? I'm like, let me and something I'm gonna, like, let me. I want to pay for our Dodger tickets. You always like, how much was. I'm like, I don't remember. And that's one thing about you. You're so generous and it gets on my nerves, okay? Like like woman. Stop it. Not everyone deserves you to be different. But you're so nice. So I'll let you beat your life. I'm. Just let me. Let me pay for the massage. Let's go to an IV. You bribe me, that's what you do. Yes. You're terrible, but it's I. It's my. It's like my love language, you know? Like, I love gifting stuff, I don't know. My. You know what? It's because my love language is actually quality time. Like the people I love, I love to hang out with. And if I have to bribe you to hang out with me because it's my love language, I'm going to bribe you to hang out with me. Because it's my love. Like, you know, like quality time to. Why would you say? What would you say was your love language? Yeah. Do you? You're like, I know nothing. Silent a long time. Um, well, with my friends, I mean, I like hanging out with my friends, like one on one. Like, for me to hang out with the group is so hard because I know there's times when I become very silent. Um, and then you would probably think I'm busy or something, but I'm not. Keep up with it. But I like taking it out. Like putting just time together. Um, I don't know, I could be there. Yeah. Everyone gets. That's true. Very few. I could be giving some time. I don't know. I'm weird. You know what it is? I think that's what I love about our relationship is that I'm very one on one person. I don't like to be in large crowds either. Um, which you've seen me in large crowds. I turned super quiet, extremely shy. Like I shut down. Like I don't even know how to speak anymore. And so it's. So that's what I love about us is that we can literally just be you and me. And I'm perfectly fine with that. Like, can we have the time of our lives? Yeah, we crack each other up. We've done great videos that have gone viral. We have. You're a comedian. Low key. So I'm kind of like. I know that. There's my friend. Let's do this. Okay. This is what we're gonna do. Like you heard it. All the rules. Yeah. Like. Okay. This is okay. One of the. I think one of our more popular ones is the one in Cabo. When you're with the life jacket on the little floaty thing you're making for me, and I'm not on it in a life jacket. Oh, yes. Yes, I'm right next to you. Yes, I am for my life. And yes. Oh, man. I think that was. I think we got a lot of laughs on that one. And then the other one is like when we're drinking and we're like, ah, that's the other one. Oh my gosh. We're the one with the light. Yes, the Halloween one. I still get lights on that Halloween one. I like boy people. We still looking at this video. It's like two years old but it's epic. It's funny. It's so funny. I know, and I. And I come to your house and I'm like, okay, Fred, this is what we're doing. This is what we're doing. I bought the little lights. We're gonna put them on each other like we're gonna be stick figures if you okay? So. Oh, sorry to interrupt, but also, what we do a lot is, um. I don't want to call it corny, but we do look youth up, right? Yes. Like if you're my man. Yeah, yeah yeah, yeah. Actually, yeah, I know, that's why. Miguel is a third wheel. And people probably don't think that, like. Oh, you think that would, you know, know like, Miguel is the third wheel know and he knows it. Yeah. There's been a couple times where we just travel the three of us. And he literally gets left. He's like our photographer. Like, he. He's just let me go there like, you know, like, oh, hey, photographer. Like we take pictures. Photos. I promise you, I think that if Miguel did a post that he was in the same place we are, people would think it was just you and me at this, technically, like, just meet you. Yeah. Yeah, me, I know, I know, but we do do super corny stuff for each other. Yeah, we buy each other gifts. Yeah, we do them all. But you know what? That's how besties are. I think a lot of people like. Yeah. Admiringly. Um, I don't think people realize, like, oh, nice land. Yeah. I mean, like, she's actually super sweet. I love her to death. Well, you just have to be on this side of the equation, not on the other. And when I go M.I.A. You check in. That's cute. Yeah. I don't know. I know you're like. I don't want any human interaction. I'm like, well, all right, um, here I am. I have your location. Yeah. I just want to see your face. See? What else do we do? That's cute. Right? I think lately, not as much, because I've been working like a maniac, but, um. Yeah, you're like my man. Yeah. Oh, my God, I feed you. Are you feeding? All right. Yeah, I do too. I love that we know stuff about it. Like, if I'm feeling weird, like down or whatever, which probably. But you know, it. It's crazy. It's like you're like, what's wrong? You're super quiet. And I'm like, ah, it's just the law, you know? And I'm like, oh, yeah. Or it's always so funny that if I'm somewhere and you're like, why are you in North Las Vegas? And I'm like, oh, I'm a crazy woman. I'm like, okay, your location. That's why I'm like, oh, I don't like ten minutes away from me. I know, and I always laugh cuz. And if he goes like, I'm like, goes, why are you in North Las Vegas? I felt like, oh, she's checking up on me. That's fine. Best friends are supposed to do. Um, so favorite type of food I want you? Absolutely. From where? So you put me on II? Yes. And. Oh my God. Yes. Yep. Right. We actually, I bribed her with dinner to be on the podcast. Oh, yeah. Um. Enchiladas verde. Yeah. Yeah. Mexican food. Yeah. Favorite drink? Like Saint Margarita. I know, basic. It's funny because, you know my drinks, I love martinis. And so when I would go visit you, a lot of, like. Well, back then, Medusa. Uh, not Medusa. I haven't been to La Diablo. I'd get. I'd sit down. You're like, here you go. Here's your martini. Which was a moment when you stopped drinking. That was annoying. You know, I'm like, do I give her water? I know you go. What do you want? Water. And I'm like, yeah, I want water. Why? It wasn't until I found out that tequila gives me heartburn. That is true. And I was like, whoa. Like, why do I get heartburn so much? But it's because tequila. So now I'm about a person. I mean, I do what I gotta do to stay drunk. Motto. I know that's the motto. I do what I gotta do to stay respected, although I. Wine. I been on a wine thing lately. I really have started to like wine. Is it like my age is just showing? I always like wine. That's the other thing. We have a huge age difference. I mean, I that's great. I almost feel like c you could get along with anybody. You do have a huge thing. But you know what's crazy is that I've told people that I'm like, oh, she's way younger than me. And we were like, really? You guys look similar at age? I like to think it's because they think I look younger. Not that you look older. Well, you don't look your age, but that's very young. I'm like, oh, so you're saying I look like I'm in my 30s? You take good care of yourself. Yes. Then I do a lot of face. I'm very into. Yeah, my very skincare routine, for sure. Plus, the Botox helps. Yeah. Oh. Yes, I'm very into that. So I appreciate what people say. We look similar in age because I'm like, okay. I like to think because they think I look in my 30s. But I'm not. I'm not in my 30s. I feel like I am. Yeah, I feel like I'm in my 20s sometimes, actually, because I didn't start drinking until I turned 40, which was when you met me. I. I met you on my 40th birthday. Right? And, um, right after I met you. Me and me go into Mexico to celebrate my birthday. And the hotel we stayed at wasn't all inclusive. And I told me, go. You know what? I'm gonna start drinking. I think this is it. And so I started drinking, and they would make me shots. They made me these shots called, um, mini beers, which looked like a little mini beer. But it wasn't beer. It was like some other liquor that would foam up on top. So it looked like a little beer. I got so drunk off of those. Miguel has a video of me that he shows people, me taking the shot, and then, like, I was just out of it. So one minute to another. Yeah, it lit super lit. And then. Then I realized that I don't get hangovers that far. Are you telling me that I'm like, what? I'm like, yes, I, I could be so drunk and wake up the next morning perfectly fine. And of course, my family says it's that Sinaloa blood. That too. But also your liver was nice and, you know. Yeah, I was lean for a long time. It was like, oh, okay, I got you. Now we're getting drunk. Drunk? So I feel like I'm only five years into the game. That's how I feel like I know. My liver is only five years old. Guys, I forgot that. Yeah, that's when I started drinking. Maybe that's why those parties were so lit. Because I was, like, still so new on the drinking thing. And I'm just sorry. Your journey. Yeah. Girl. Period. It's like I turned 21. That was your 21st birthday. That was my 21st birthday. Yeah, well, we had a great time. Um. Hang back. Um, when you first met me, did you think we're gonna be friends? Like friends? I never thought that you'd be, like, my best friend, but I knew. And that's the thing that I feel like I always think so highly of everybody, just I know and I think, oh, she's so sweet. Like, if you're sweet to me, I'll be sweet to you. And I just want to create a friendship with you. And so I was like, okay. She's super sweet. Like, why wouldn't I want to be friends with her? You know? And I don't actually have even though I'm like this, I don't have a lot of friends. And so the fact that you would respond back to me and then you'd conversate with me, I'm like, she's brainy, you know? And. Yeah. So I mean, I knew I wanted to be a friendship with you, but I just never thought it'd be like this. There I come from, I love it here, which I appreciate. In fact, I'm like, what's okay? And I say this all the time. Like I'm not a jealous person. Like, towards my husband. Girls could talk to my husband, like, flirt with me, I don't care like it does not bother like at all. But you talk to my best friend or you post her or oh, I'm starving like knifing. Oh, jeez. To Steph, like, who is that white girl? I'm the same way with my wife hanging out with her. I'm like, who is she? Why is she tagging you? We're territorial. I know I always said I was gonna make, like, a TikTok on that, like, oh, my. And then, like, have my husband being flirted on and me like, whatever. And then like, you being talked like, as a best friend, I'm like, oh no, no. Like, don't talk to her. No no no no no no no. You can't talk to her. Uh, that's how I feel about you. Yeah. No, because I'd be like, what? What are you doing? Why are you with her? Where are you? Who is your friend? I'm like, girl, I'm just trying to get some tea for us right now, because I know the only reason I'm talking to her is cuz I need some tea. Okay? I'm about to feed you some stuff. Okay. We're talking, you know, like me. We have friends. Yeah, like we're not that. Like. It's okay. But I know what I think. I said to like, a gift the other day because you were hanging out with Arielle, which I love. Really? Yeah. But, like, anytime I see you with her, I'm like. And I said, cry, cry. And I'm like, my heart just exploded. Oh, my God, you're an Oreo. You're so dramatic. That's how I feel like we're both of you guys. It's the funniest thing because Ariana is also like one of my best friends too. And so when I hang out with her, I. I know it already, like, oh, I'm gonna hear something. See. And then when I hang out with you, I hear something. Yeah, it's the funniest thing. I'm like. I love that special. You know what's funny is that we like each other, right? Yeah. It's not like we really dislike each other and, like, why are you hanging out with her? Like, I generally like, I really like, I don't have a problem. Like following her. I even make comments to her like, you're so beautiful, you know, like. But I think one time last year, somebody asked her like, yes, yes, birthday. Yes. Because the birthday party was here at my house. And somebody asked her like, you're good. Like you get along with Suzy and she's like, yeah, I get along with her. Thing was she lives. She goes, yeah. She goes, well, why don't you? She said, because she lives so freaking far. Because I live in Henderson and you guys live in North Las Vegas. And so she's like, why do I hang out with her? Because she lives so freaking far. But it's not because it. I mean, what it is. It really is that, like, I like to think that you guys live for, I guess. But, um, I always said when I become a multi-millionaire, when I make it that I'm buying you a house in Henderson, I'm like, she's gonna live over here. We tried. We tried her with the Powerball. Did not work, I worked, I got $8, which I always said I was gonna split my winnings, so I. Y'all give me $4, but I collect. I didn't even check mine. No, I checked it for you, man, I was it was nothing. I was like, man. I was ready to text stuff like, hey, why not? You got a girl, like, quit. You walk out right now. That was no work. I think maybe. Or maybe I'll retire. Everybody finish your shift, right? Hey, guys, this is the last time you'll see me. You can't be in. You can't be with you, and I'm out. Um. I'm done. We tried. I didn't check my. What? Is this okay? Yeah, I, I know, it's because, well, it's because I, I have the app, so you have to have an app to scan the little barcode on the bottom. I'm tempted to go on, like the site. Right. Oh my God, doing it. Yeah. So I just so I scanned everybody's thing and I was like, because I had my daughter's and she didn't win anything either. I'm like, you guys, we won nothing. Are you the only one that won $8? $8? My sister won $16. If I told her with our $24, we won't even make it to Arizona to cash these in. You have to go to Arizona for that? Yeah. You have to go collect in the state that you. Yeah. All that stuff that. So we would have to travel to Arizona to get my $8 in her 16. So I know that. And it's not happening. I'm not thinking I'm going to go for $8. I mean, yeah, you don't even know it's not worth it. No, not at all. So you're not getting your $4. Okay. I'm looking at right now. Oh, yeah. Um, I don't know. Do we have anything else to cover? Let's see. I know you mentioned, like, me talking about men. Yes. I feel like everyone tell us I don't like them. I know we tried. I want to say at least you've tried. Um, so Steph is turning into a lesbian. Are you coming out with us? You know what? I'm offering you things. No. Um. Oh, I do that, man. I don't hate you, guy. He is the strong word. I just dislike you guys because you guys are kind of like, I don't understand you. And then when I get like, oh, you're toxic. Because when I say, like, you know, out of pocket things like, oh, I like when women cheat, I don't advise a woman to cheat unless she's going to stay in that toxic relationship. Yeah. And if you're staying, that's when I advise you. Yeah. You know what you're gonna say? Go ahead and have your party, girl. Yeah, but, like, otherwise, I don't condone to that, guys. Okay? I don't think I'm a bitch. No, you're not, I'm not. I'd rather you leave. And it goes for both sides. I mean, yeah, I don't see the point of staying together if you're just not happy. Like, that doesn't make any sense to me, but, yeah, I just want to touch this subject because, I mean, thankfully, I'm not in that. Like, I actually really like him. Not like, like, oh, we like that. The other thing that he gets so upset about, like when we go on trips, I'm so used to saying, hey, friend, hey, because, you know, I call everybody by what they are not so much by their name. I remember that one time and what time I told me, go, hey, Fred, he's my friend. He's like, Fred. I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. Husband, husband, hey husband, I remember that. I remember that. Yeah. There it happened a couple times and he's like friend. So and every once in a while he's like, hey friend to me. And I'm like, oh, sorry. Because you guys have a good relationship. Yeah we do. Which is, you know, I admire it. It's inspiring, like one that you guys are from a different generation. That is true. My generation and glow. I know all my friends told me this. You hear all this stuff because I don't think anyone know. But like this. You know me. I've been, like, single. Yeah. I've only known you to be with one guy, and that's it. Like, yeah, we don't need to go there. We don't need to go there. But that's the only one I've ever met. And he was like, yeah, it's because, I mean, you have a man. His name is spike. The quality is not there. It's not. Do you think it's because you need an older man? I like older man. Yeah, but I don't know friend. Like, it's weird. People are weird in this generation and, like. And I know there's good women. Like there is good women. Yeah. Not all men are the same, however. Like, this generation is so messed up and, like, just. I don't know what's going on with men. They don't act like men. Like. Yes. Very feminine, you know. And there is no way that I'm more manly than you like. Yes. That doesn't make any sense. Like, I could go home right now and, like, it might be like, do something to tie it up. But, man, I don't know how to do that. Or even change, like oils or like, um, oil changes. Change a tire? Yeah. You know, and I wasn't, like, raised that way. Like my, my parents like, well, my dad, my brothers, you know, they're very manly and like that. I meet men now and they don't do that or like, you know, like like. No, but you wanted to this woman, like, um. Yeah. You want me to cook and clean, but you can't change my tire. Yeah. So that's like an ick. Yeah. Oh. Social media ruined everything I'd like to say. Yeah, that is true. I don't know, girl. Look, man, just don't have the brains anymore. Like they used again. It's not everyone, you know. Like just the ones you run into. Yeah, and I'm very picky, which is weird, but, like, if you see, like, the guys that I have talked to, they're not all the same. No, no. They're different. Like, you know, and I always say you don't even have a type. I feel like, you know, when you see somebody and then they're in another relationship, the person usually looks similar to each other. And then when you we talk and I'm like, well, that looks nothing like the other guy because like, looks are cool and all, but if you have the personality and the vibe, you know, like, that's important, make me laugh or whatnot. Um, I'm not a gold digger. I'm gonna say that again. People think I'm realistic, and I'm not. That is. They're not at all. Yeah. Like, I don't know, like, if you're if I'm looking for someone, it's gonna be you have what I have or a little bit more. Yeah. I'm not gonna like, like at least bottom. Yeah. My way up. Yes. But I'm past, you know, that's like like at least match me, you know? Yeah. Yeah. Like, I don't know. I don't know what I'm looking for. I'm not looking for anything. If it happens, it happens. And if it doesn't, it doesn't. Yeah. I'm content. Yeah. I'm your man anyway. Yeah, like I do. Girl I got you. Yeah, man. You think now you, you know you give me like a queen I thought I needed my life. But I didn't want to talk about it. Because I know people look at me and they think like that. She hates men. Yeah. Not like, you know, they made me right. There you go. They may be wrong, too. There's a reason. There's always a reason that there's a method to my madness. Okay. And, um. Yeah. Generation is not. I know you need an older man. Maybe we'll find one, you know. Oh, Lord Jesus, you need one. In what? I don't know. I don't think that about me. Know what the fat bacon cow I like? Close to death? No, no, not that old. I was gonna say, like in your their 40s. Their 50s, maybe. You know, there's some guys in their 50s that look amazing, you know? I mean, if you know me, you know, like, older. Yeah, that's I don't know. Who knows? It's because the love of your life is Nicky Jam. Let's just be honest. I know you told me. So, Nicky Jam, if you're listening to this, tune in, please. Oh, now I'm really going to read. Oh, I know. So maybe one day. Maybe. But no. I'm okay. If it doesn't happen. The player though. Oh, yeah. Yeah. He gave you money. I'm like, licky jam gave you money. This is also my mommy. I'm like, oh, nice that you didn't even understand him. No. He continued to talk and he lost me after that. Yeah. I just want to know what. That's one thing about the she speaks Spanish, but if you speak other than Mexican Spanish, she. You lose her. You lose her. Quick. Yeah, yeah, because I work with a lot of human. So, like, I learned to adapt to their speed. Yeah, but, girl, it's hard. Okay. Yeah, I'm good with it. More than I used to. So it's difficult. They have. Yes. There is no period. Doo doo doo doo doo doo doo doo doo doo doo. I swear, when I first met me. Girls, family. Because me. Girls from Venezuela. Obviously they speak the exact same way. And I'm like, I look at me go, I'm like, it's like I don't speak Spanish because I have no idea what they're saying. And he'd have to translate for me because I'm like, I would look at him with a blank stare like, help me out. I don't know what they said. No you haven't. He's. Yes. Like regular. Yes. I taught him well. Yeah. Yeah you did. Are you girl? No. It's, um. He only sounds like that around his family. Oh. So one day, maybe when you see him with his family, it's just amazing. It's like, dude, I'm like, who are you? Yeah, yeah. I cannot the language barrier like that. Mhm. Like, I, I get confused, like what's funny is that you worked with them so much you would think you'd catch on, but it's just not. Is, how many years have you been with them? A working industry I work for and then, like for Pablo and Shark. Like how long? Uh, like five years. Yeah. I mean, but I understand for the most part, somethings. I'm just like, I know you're cracking jokes. And other times I'm like, nope, you lost me. I like, slow it down a little bit. Yeah, you would think. Right. Yeah. It's it's a lot. And the music is loud. That's true to the music. Doesn't help, huh? Yeah. I don't know that. Okay. What was that? Yeah, like we didn't talk about food. I know part two coming up next week. I just gotta generate more questions because I feel like I didn't talk much. Well, we did, we did. We talked a lot. I feel like I was like, this microphone feels like super high right now. Like my shortness is showing short. I know, by the way, you're older today I love it. And then I here I am with black anger. Dark. Yeah. Well, you know what's funny is that's how complete opposites we are. Like, I completely and usually it's the other way around. Yeah, usually it is the other way around. We're like. Plain black solid colors, I would say just like real sunshine. My yellow yellow. All right. My favorite color. All right friend. Well, thank you so much for being on. Thank you for having me. I appreciate it so much. I love you so much. I know that it's okay. We're so loving. We're so. Let's be honest. I love you so much. And, um. Yeah, if you want to. I'm down. Yeah. Get down. She could go into. Maybe. Send in your questions. Yes, I could send in questions, actually. Yeah. Send in your questions and we'll answer them. That might be a funny one, actually. Very honest to yes. She has zero filter. Don't ask questions. Go ahead. Well, yeah. I always like to sugarcoat things like, okay, let's make it into a nice packet and then you're like, bam. Not gonna tell you though. Tell you how it is. And that's why we get along, friend. Opposites attract. That's true. All right, guys, well, until next time. Yeah. And again, thank you so much. I love you. Okay, bye. Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Unfiltered Us. If you enjoyed this conversation, don't forget to hit that follow button so you never miss an episode. 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