Episode 10 - Secret Questions

This episode gets real—we surprised each other with secret questions we weren’t allowed to see ahead of time. 😳 From deep confessions to hilarious “wait, what?!” moments, nothing was off limits. Expect laughter, awkward pauses, and a few juicy revelations we did not see coming. 😅

🎧 Hit play to hear us ask the questions we've always wanted to but never dared—until now.

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Transcript

You're listening to unfiltered us, where we keep it real and unscripted. I'm your host, Susie, along with my husband, Miguel. Ready to dive in? Let's get started. All right, well. Welcome back. Welcome. I wasn't ready, but go for it. Welcome. Um, it's exciting to talk to you again. Yeah. Glad to have you back. Thanks for coming back. You're welcome. I feel like I was abandoned once I got sick. You know, I started looking at the newer models. It was nice to have our kids on, though. It was. I think it was great, I think. Um, people could tell the difference in the personality. Oh, absolutely. Nonetheless, both talks were amazing, I loved it. Yeah, and people love them as well too. So yes, it was good. It was really good. I'm still not 100%, as you could tell from that call. I can tell. The cough is always the worst thing to go away. I feel it's going away like you could feel so much better. But the cough will still linger for weeks. You would think you're the one that smokes hookah. Yes. You would think I'm the smoker. You would think you're the smoker. And I'm not even a smoker. Not one bit. I know it sounds that way, though. It does? Yeah. My voice isn't even back. You sound better, though. I do, but I still feel raspy for sure. Yeah, well, I know we got a great episode today. I'm excited for this. We do. So we each compiled five questions we want to ask the other person. And the other person does not know what the five questions are. I'm excited to see what you're going to ask me. It's great questions. They're great questions. I think you're going to like them. So who's going to go first? I say you start first. Okay, I start first, then. We don't know these questions. That's the thing. You don't know what I'm gonna ask. And I'm actually scared. You are. I am. You're scared of what? I'm going to ask you. Yes. Okay, my first question is, how does it feel to be a toxicol? What? No, I'm just joking. That is not my first question. I was gonna say, wait a minute. Okay. I mean, I guess I can answer, but, I mean, no, that's not really. Oh, okay. No, I don't. I don't think you're a talker. But you're not like. Like. I don't know how to say it. Like me. Like that. I'm very nonchalant. I don't know if that makes sense. I am, to a certain extent, like you mean. No. Like you. Yeah, to a certain extent, yeah. Yeah. Maybe not at 100 vibes, but not really. No, I'm I'm like, if you're at 100, I'm like at 80. The other 20% is just called watch out, watch out. Yeah. Watching what? Watching you. You're watching me. I'm watching you. The other 20%. I'm watching. I don't know what there is to watch. I don't do nothing. I don't even get on my phone like I'm horrible about, like, social media or like, that has nothing to do with that. Has nothing. It has nothing to do with social media. Yeah. Has nothing to do with the phone or has nothing to do with that. I'm literally at home if I, if I could stay at home and like, be a couch potato. So honestly, I would be a couch potato so 90% you I'm like because I just, I, I didn't used to be a homebody, but I feel like now I am for sure a homebody. That's me. Welcome to the club. You convinced me to be a homebody. You know, there's really not many great things out there anyways. I mean, there's great people used to love going out, like, yeah, I'd get ready and go to the mall, like, just to be out. Yeah. No, now, I don't even like going to the grocery store. Mm. I don't know what what you gave me, but you definitely made me into a homebody. Yeah, I don't know. What's the first question? I know that wasn't the. You already asked one. So you're sorry that we got four? That wasn't the question. Is there a routine or habit we do that you hope never changes? I have that question you have? How do you have that question? Very well. I'm pretty sure we both ChatGPT know. I promise you, I did not. You could look at my ChatGPT like I have a question very similar to that. You. That's crazy. Yeah, I think that's what's so weird. Not so weird. I think that's what's so great about our relationship. And I think I feel like a lot of times I read your mind. Do you. Oh, no. Yeah, 100%. So there isn't there isn't anything that I, I mean, it's kind of off topic, but I do read your mind. Yeah. No I'm super. It's it's kind of weird about me, honestly, because if I become really close to you, not just like you, my spouse, but like my kids or my friends, I could literally read your mind as no joke. Like, I'll say it. And you, I was thinking about it happens all the time. Yeah. Oh my gosh. I was just thinking about that. And I'm like, I'm sorry, I just do that. I read people's minds. Yeah, I agree, I believe it, I see it. Which thing about it? So that's why I have to be careful what I think sometimes. Yeah. So see, I didn't even know you had that question. And I promise you, I did not ChatGPT questions. I don't. I don't. I mean, I believe you, okay, so read the question again. I'll answer it. Okay. What's one habit? Is there a routine or habit that you do that you hope never changes? That I do personally, that we do together? Um, do you know what I want to say lately, for the past three years, it's just the gym first thing in the morning. Yeah. I knew you were going to say that. That's definitely a routine that I, um, don't ever want to change. And what's funny is that even when we go on vacations, we still work out. We still try to plan our days where we wake up. Maybe not as early as we wake up when we're home. Uh, but we wake up early, and then we do our best to get at least an hour workout and then come back and get ready and go on about our day. Um, and it's funny because I know there's people that go on vacation and they're like, I'm not working out. Yeah. And then they come in the. No. Yeah. The gym is a no. And then they, they stuff themselves with food, right. And then they come back and they're like, oh my God, I gained like £10. And yeah, you do maybe gain a little bit of weight when you're, when you're out on vacation. But at least you kept somewhat active. Right. Because if you think about it, a week without working out, man, it's just sets you back. I don't know, another couple of weeks until your body gets back into that routine. But I think that's one routine that, um, that you love about it. Yeah. I mean, as far as, like, uh, that I can think of maybe that, you know, but, I mean, there's there's a bunch of routines that we have. I know we literally spend 24 hours a day together. Yeah, there's a lot where we're we're we're apart. There's a lot of things we do together that I just wish that don't change. You know, I mean, we improve and get better, for sure, but not change. Yeah. Okay. Did that answer your question? It did answer my question. Okay. I kind of felt like that was going to be the answer. Well, that's because you already know. Okay, so here's this question. What is a small moment in our relationship that means more to you than I realize? Oh, man, that's a tough one. I feel like that's a tough one because there's so many of them. It's hard to come up with just one thing. It is. But there's gotta be one, right? Because I thought, I mean, like like little things. Like when I'm sick. Like I was sick. Like the fact that you took care of me. I love little moments like that. Like when I don't feel well and you're there, and I love little things, too. Like, if we're watching TV, you make sure that you have your, like, hand on me somewhere, like you're touching me. And I love that little things about like that. Like where you rub my feet or my handsome or. Oh my gosh, like that. So little small moments like that. I absolutely love, like, there's some days where you sit on one end of the couch and I'm on the other end of the couch, and I'm like, I don't like this. Like, you need to move closer because I like when you just sit next to me. Or like when my feet are cold and you, like, sit on my feet. I absolutely love that. So it's those little moments like that I think that I really appreciate. They mean a lot to you. They mean a lot to me. But I don't know if I could have a specific moment that I was, you know, that I thought, oh, this is yeah, this moment. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I feel like there's a lot of this this questions have a lot of, um, answers that we can go about and talk. So. Okay. Well, I guess it's your turn now. I guess this is kind of similar. I, uh, this is so weird because I promise you, I did not know what you were going to ask, and you didn't know what I was going to ask. But is there a random thing about me that makes you smile? Um. Um, a lot of things, I think. I think sometimes you're hilarious. I mean, not not sometimes. You are hilarious in general. And there's things that you do that surprise me in a sense. But don't surprise me in a sense, because it's you. Yeah. You know, um, and then also there's times where, like, I was we were coming back from the gym and I had a, I forget the question that I had was, and you give me the most educational answer and I'm like, you're so smart, you know? And so I was just like, I'm like, how did she get so smart? Like, you know, like little things like that, you know? But, um, yeah, I mean, I think, I think, um, yeah, that I think that your sense of humor, I think most people don't realize that. Or maybe don't get that. Yeah. I feel like, um, my outside doesn't look like it would be hilarious. Okay, so fun fact about that. So our friend Brenda, Brenda Beltran, she mentioned something one time that, you know, she goes, if you know Miguel and Susie, right, in real life. And if you look at their social medias, they're like the complete opposite, she said. Miguel's all outspoken and outgoing and this and that on social media. And if you meet him, he's like quiet and reserved, which by nature, I'm an introvert. I know a lot of people. It's hard for people to believe that. But by nature I'm more shy than anything. That's very true. And, um, and and and then and the other side on you. You're very quiet sometimes on social media, but you're like the life of the party, sometimes in real life. And so I think that's pretty obviously it's who we are as our personalities. But I think that's pretty funny. Yeah, that that's funny. That is funny. Yeah. I like when people realize that too. They're like, you're actually pretty funny. I'm like, thank you. Yeah. Another thing about you too, that maybe people don't realize. You're you're a boss. You really are a boss. There's times where I want to do things for the kids and you're like, no. Yeah, and then you say all this, you said all these ground rules. And I'm like, wait, I thought it was a strict one here, you know, or maybe towards your brother or your sisters or wherever, you know, some, some somebody in the family does something and or something's going on and I'll say something like, well, maybe it's this and you're like, no, because, you know, and I'm like thinking, damn, that's a like, I just got schooled right now. Like, wow, I didn't know that. You're like a boss. You may not realize that sibling. I feel like that's an older sibling thing, right? Do you get that? And I don't know, I'm like, I can never say I'm an older sibling. I know you are. You're the baby. But I feel like the older sibling kind of looks. It's a boss thing. It's a control power thing. I don't feel like I'm very controlling though, but I could kind of see where you're coming from. I mean, I a little bit, you know, it's not it's not your most dominant personality part of it. But yeah, when it does, like the funny part or the boss part then. Yeah. That that thing I like that. Okay. All right, let's see. It's my turn. What is something about our dynamic that that you think others other couples may not understand. So what is something. I don't have my glasses, by the way. So if people are listening, no wonder I'm like. I thought you wrote these down. They're right here. Not well, because. Okay. What is something about our dynamic that you think other couples may not understand? Men. I don't know that other couples won't understand about us. Yes. So I think I think and I obviously, I need, I want, I want you to answer. But I just think that when I wrote that question, I think there's a lot of people, especially that don't know us personally. Right. Like there's a lot of people that follow us on social media or maybe listen to this podcast that maybe don't truly know us personally, that will look at us and will somewhat have a certain type of judgment and that they don't understand. So something about our dynamic that other couples may not understand from your point of view. Well, maybe. And I know we've kind of covered this is the fact that I'm very nonchalant. I don't know. And I don't know. I don't think a lot of people understand how I'm not very open on that. What is it like? I feel like I feel and I don't know because I've never come across it like no one's ever told me anything. But like, I think a lot of people have a hard time understanding, like how I'm not a jealous person, how I'm not so jealous. You're not jealous? No, no no, no. And so a lot of people have I feel a hard time understanding that. And I know we've discussed that, like, as far as, like, you know, like the toxic, uh, episode. Um, but when we talk to people and I see that, like, I remember we were at a dinner one time, um, and we there was a lot of couples, and we were all talking, and then all the ladies. I don't know how it came about, but they were like, oh, um. I'm a jealous person. And then the other wife was like, oh, I'm a jealous person. And then another wife would be like, I it was like 4 or 5 couples was like, oh yeah, no, I'm a jealous person. And then they came to me and I'm like, I'm not. And I swear their faces were like, what do you mean? Like, they didn't understand where I was coming from. They almost were like, take him back. And they thought, what's wrong with that girl? Right? I almost feel also that if you're not a jealous person or a toxic in a relationship, uh, it's a horrible thing. Yeah. Which in my mind, it's a horrible thing to be a toxic. So you feel like they're wasting energy? Yes. I feel like there's a lot of energy being put out, a lot of unnecessary fights about it. Do you think that maybe because they don't want something to happen so bad ends up happening. It's like the law of attraction. They attract more like you. If you bring it up a lot and you talk about it a lot. I am very intuitive about that stuff, and that's why I make sure, like the way I speak to myself or the way I speak to my children or my husband, I make sure that it's always in a positive way, because I don't want something bad to happen because I'm I promise you, I my life revolves around the secret. I don't know if anyone's ever really watched that movie, but I highly recommend it. And all it is is the Law of attraction, which means that if you constantly talk about it or you constantly think about it, it will constantly happens to you, right? So the fact that you constantly think that your mom's going to cheat on you, or you constantly think that he's doing something behind your back even though it's not there, maybe at first, yeah, I feel like with time it does happen because you put that out there, right? And since I choose not to think that way. I feel like it just doesn't happen to us, right? Yeah. I think that might you you might hit it right on the nail. Um, I mean, and obviously there's a lot of things about our dynamic that we do. Working together is one of them. And maybe a lot of couples don't understand that. Right. We talked about it in a previous episode. Um, but I think that part right there that you said about you. You not being jealous, right? I think it's something that I, I truly believe it's especially nowadays. Right. Because obviously we talked about social media, but there are so many people today that are I don't know, the word is worried. Scared. Um, maybe, maybe, you know, past experiences with track records before of their wives, especially wives and husbands, two of them talking to other people. You know, I, I feel like. To answer somewhat of that question. From my point of view, I feel like there's girls sometimes, or ladies sometimes that might see our relationship and see the things that I do or who I talk to. And they may see me. They may say something like, oh, I would never let him do that, or I would never, you know, allow that or blah, blah, blah. All right. Wherein the other and the other and I'm like, well, I mean, it's, it's it's not that I'm taking advantage of it or whatever. It's just that that's, you know, there's nothing or whatever, you know, it's it's just we talked about it on the other episode. I feel like we're talking about, you know, again, like, yeah. So I think you should go back. Yeah, you should go back and listen to that, which is a popular episode, by the way. It is a very popular, enthusiastic guy. Yeah. But I've never I haven't got any feedback. So I'm curious. I feel like some people should reach out. Well, maybe they're, they're just curious, you know, they just I think the title really attracted people because I, I, they skipped like I think that was episode what, five five. So they skipped like sometimes some episodes and go straight to that one, you know. Which is fine. But yeah. Yeah. Which is fine. I mean we appreciate every person that listens. Um, but I feel like I don't I don't want to go into all that stuff over again because we cover so much with this. But that is a big part of our dynamic that most people don't understand. Yeah. And we have a bunch of stories that we can share too. But, um, until the next your turn. Yeah, it's my turn. Is there something I could surprise you with that you'd really enjoy? I read your mind. You nasty. Uh, there's many things you can surprise me with that would that would G13 and that would. Uh, this is unfiltered. Say that again. It's something that you can surprise me with that. What? That. Would you really enjoy? Yeah, there's a lot of things, you know. I mean, I love, I love, um, I love active service. You know, like I told you today, my birthday father's. I'm like, we got Mother's Day, we got his birthday, then we got Mother's Day. And then after that, it's like, I look forward to his Father's Day, and I look forward to his my birthday a month after that. Right. So it's like I get celebrated in a sense, or pampered, I guess you can say, or whatever, gifted, you know, and so I, I, um, I love surprises, I really do. I mean, gifts, I know you love surprises, but is there a surprise? That you would really enjoy. You really want me to answer this? Um, I don't know, I think I think, uh, a new truck, a new truck, a new a new truck would be nice. Okay. A new Raptor, like, 118 scale. You know, I would be happy with that, too. People had gifted me Ferraris on that scale, so I. And I loved them. I think I still have them somewhere around here, you know. So I love that too. But yeah, I mean, any gifts really. I really do appreciate that. I, I don't take any type of gifts for granted, really. I mean, I, I hold a lot of value to things that people give me. You know, that's true, that you can get rid of a lot of stuff. Yeah. It's, uh, it's a cancer thing, but it's just, you know, it's just it doesn't matter. I mean, I can look around here and there might be something that, I don't know, somebody gifted me on my birthday like this. This is. This is a perfect example right here. That is a gift that you received. We're looking at a, um, hand painting of a Don Julio 70 bottle and that to me, it just holds a lot of value, you know? And that's why it's hanging right here. Um, so I, I love things like that, you know, but, I mean, obviously in anything, you can surprise me pretty much with any type of gift, and I'll hold value to that. And I would love it. You know, when we talk about material things. Okay. A truck that did that answer your question? I guess kind of. I was kind of expecting you to be like, I guess because I was thinking of like my answer like, wake up and then have our bags packed and. Oh, yeah, right to I don't know. Okay, so it did cross my mind a trip, but a lot I think a lot of the times it's hard for you to surprise me with the trip because I'm always involved on where we're going or what we're going to do. I mean, I'm great about surprising you. Well, okay, so I have been surprised on the hotels that we go to. Right? So I know, like last time we had gone to Kabul, um, I didn't know the resort, like, I, I didn't know what what resort we were going to like the vacation prince. Like, you're like. I'm like, okay, just bring your passport. We're leaving. And you're like, where are we going? Where are we saying, yeah, I know that we're going to Kabul, and I know that we were staying at you told me the name of the hotel. And when we got there, I remember when we got there, I was like, oh, my God, this is so beautiful. Look at this and look at that. And I think Steph says something like, yeah, didn't you see it on the pictures? And I was like, no, I saw no pictures. I didn't see no pictures. I didn't see no video, no pictures. I just she told me we were going to Kabul and I'm like, okay, be ready for this date. And we showed up. And so that was in a sense a surprise when you get there. But it's semi surprise, I guess you can say. But um, yeah, I did cross my mind a trip though. I'm not gonna lie. I could surprise you with. Oh, well. You have. You surprised me with the Lakers tickets. When we said that it was for Christmas. Yeah. For Christmas. You got me. Pack your bags. I'm taking you courtside. Front row, right behind the whole Lakers. Yeah, for the games in LA. That was amazing. That I loved so that I loved. So yeah. Anything like that with you? Okay, okay. If we switch lives for a day, what is something that you do differently? Oh, what is something I would do differently if you were me for a day? If I was you for a day. Oh, that's a tough one. I got the question. I feel like it's a tough one because we spend all of our day together, so I don't know what I would do differently. Think about it. I would ask you if I could be single for a day and then go home around. So I guess tomorrow I can do that then. Nice. No, it's supposed to be me. Yeah. Sweet. I'm so. Meaning you would want me to do that if you were me. I'm you. Yes, but I'm you. So you want to be. I want to be single as a guy and go around. Yeah. A day is not enough. You. You cannot get anything. Not enough. Yeah. Yeah. That you you you you won't get nowhere in a day. Yeah, I won't get. No. Even if you had that wish. You can't get nowhere in a day. Mhm. But if you had a week although uh I mean I'm just playing, I wouldn't haul around. I'm definitely not that person. But, uh. Maybe. Go buy a truck. Dang. Okay, let's let's do that tomorrow. Let's do that tomorrow. That would be two questions right there. Yeah. Surprise you. And it would be. Go pick up the hose with the truck. Pick up the hay. It works. It works. Okay. I guess you're you're. I would go buy a truck. Man. Man, that's a great question. I almost have to think about it because I don't know. If there's anything that I would change about you, you know what I mean? Yeah. Because you asked me, like, what would I do differently? But I don't think there'd be anything I would change about you. I would keep you the same. There isn't anything that I. I mean, sometimes you might, uh, like, really annoying, like cough really loud or something dumb like that. But I'm not the only one. I'm not the. I'm not the person coughing 20%. I know, but that's because I'm sick. But when you sneeze, it's literally the loudest sneeze is immense knees like it's. That's how a man sneezes. Like like so little things like that. Like you're very vocal. Like your noises are very vocal. They're masculine. So I would maybe calm that down. But besides that, there's nothing else that bothers me about you. Yeah. Okay. I feel like you answered this in the previous question, but what is your love language? Um. For sure. Act of service for sure. Act of service? Like I told you the other day, I had a dream that I was a part owner of an NBA team. Right? It was weird. So. I remember showing up to the the team facility and I was like, treated like royalty. Like people opened doors. I mean, it was like red carpet service, VIP butlers, and they wouldn't let you do anything. Right, like. Um, and I love that, you know, I really do love that. Like, I like, you know, kind of, uh, what's it called? Um, kind of kind of act of service, right? Yeah. And, and this is why we love going to certain vacation places that we go to because they, you know, they take care of, of us, you know? They take care of me, and they they call you by, you know, Mister Senor Guzman or Mister Guzman, you know, I mean, like things like that. Man, I just I just love that I think that, you know, like that. To me, it's like when you're sick, you're like, oh, yeah, you really want me to take care of you? Yeah, yeah, I like I like being taken care of honestly in all areas. So I think the acts of service, you know, that I think that is my love language and then gives of course like gives. But I mean, I'm okay if you were sitting on one side of the couch and I'm on the other side of the couch. No. And then but I understand that about you. And that's why I sit next to you, and that's why I put my hand or I put my hand. Yeah. Um, you know, and so I understand that about you, and that's why I do it. Um, but to me, it's that it's it's it's it's like that was a great dream. I thought it was words of affirmation that two. Of course, you know, like, if I had to pick one for you, I wouldn't have said acts of service. I would have had words of affirmation. Those two are there, those two are there. I, I think I, I do love to hear even you be surprised. I mean, I show you, right? Anytime I get a message on social media, I post something and people. Even stranger. Sometimes they're just people that follow me. They might send me messages saying something like, thank you, I appreciate it. I needed to hear this. Uh, or they might say something like, man, I look up to you. Or, you know, they might send, like, those messages whenever I get those type of messages on, on social media or whenever I hear from you or my son or my daughter, you know, um, they they just they're more emotional to me than it's a different type of satisfaction, if that makes sense. You know, those those things to me are more like accomplish accomplishment, emotional reward. You know, knowing that the work that you put in, because that's really what I do, is work on helping people get better. Um, those to me are rewards, you know, and not so much. I look at it like right alongside with act of service and and the gifts. Um, I look at those. And I value them on an emotional part. So yes, that is that is true. You do know me for that. And that is true as well too. Okay. Yeah, because I would definitely thought that would have been number. No. Yeah. No I mean they're, they're, they're, they're right there there next to each other. And sorry for the leaf blower outside. I don't know if you could hear that. No they can't hear it. They won't hear that. Not the one in the middle of the day here. No one hear that? Is it my turn? Yes. Is your turn okay? Okay, so this is like the first question that, um, that you ask, right? Um, which my question was, what's the habit that we've learned as a couple that you really love? So I don't know if that's the same as, like, the very first one is it is kind of. Okay, so I have an alternative one. Okay. Go ahead. So because I was going to answer it though because you answered that question. Okay. Well then go for it. That's fine. What what's a what are habits that we formed as a couple that you really love? I really love our night routine. Like when we say, oh my God, I love that too. When we're getting ready to go to bed. Yeah, we go to bed and we usually end up watching a show before we go to sleep. Like, I love our night time routine, you know? Right. And then once we turn off the TV and we go to sleep, I, I love that. I love the end of the day. Okay, so your question, I think what's your biggest turnoff or pet peeve? Oh, what? Where do we start? I have a lot from you. Or like in general. Oh, you have a law firm? No no no no I wasn't. I mean, I have a lot of pet peeves, bro. I have I in general, man, I think fat cops are is one of my biggest pet peeves. I swear, every time I see a police officer and they're overweight, I just don't get it. Like, it doesn't make sense to me. Yeah, like, how did you go to the academy then, too? Yeah, they probably gain all the way to afterwards, is what I'm thinking. Do. But what? I just can't believe the Academy lets you. Or like the department. Department? Yeah. Um, lets you guess. And this is why now, on social media, you see all these videos of criminals running away. There was literally a guy jogging in front of a cop. That guy wasn't even going full speed running. And the cop was so overweight he couldn't even catch up to him. He was winded. He was. He it was, you know, guy style like I don't understand like and and I support cops. Okay. I, I backed the badge I, I love the blue but I that's I don't know why it bothers me so much. Right. When we talk about the gym, people don't don't rerack their weight. That bothers me. So it's putting me in a bad mood right now because I don't like when they don't agree with not only rerack, but don't even clean up after themselves like they leave their water bottles. And I'm like, bro, how does your house look like if you can't even are there slobs clean up 100% in a public place? Yeah, 100%. They're slobs. Right? Like I see guys at the gym and they, they they come in and like they said, the Smith machine has zero plates on it, and then they stack it with like, plates and then they leave it. And then here comes this older lady, and now she's asking for help to take all that stuff off so she can work out. So that that bothers me. That's a bigger. Yeah. It's horrible. I think it's dumb for people to have, um, vanity license plates with the car. Model number. Like if you see a Mercedes 500 as 500, and then they go and they put the license plate as 500, or are you paying extra money to have the A Hummer and the license plate says H2 or Hummer? I'm like, well, thanks. I, I, I didn't know what kind of car that was. You know, like little things like that I think bother me so much or buy and those are the only ones I could probably think of right now. But man, I think there's just so many stupid people out there that in so many things that is wrong with this world, like, but again, they're pet peeves, so you can't really do anything about it. Right? But that bothers you, I, I don't I, you know, they're I guess, I guess is that the definition of a pet peeve, like something that is a bother me in a way, but that you can do about it. And, you know, it's late when people are late. Yeah. Oh, I swear that, like, not a lot of things make me mad, but if you're late, that makes me so mad because they feel like you're not taking into account my time. Yeah, like you expect me to wait for you, right? You know, like, you don't value my time, and I cannot stand that. Okay, so I, I agree with you. Okay, here's the thing. When is very randomly like, maybe they just ran late, like a kids or a flat tire or something, right? But when it's consistent, yes, that's when it's the worst part. Yes. When it's when it's a habit. Especially because I'm not that person. Like, if I tell you your mom is always late. Oh yeah. Oh. And, well, I remember one time I had to tell her I'm like, that is not because we were on a trip. Yeah. And I remember we had to be at this tour thing that we were doing, let's just say by 6:00. And I was like, you cannot be late. Like, I laid down the law. I was the boss, like you said earlier. Yeah. See there I laid down the line like I was like, we cannot be late. The things says to be there at six, you cannot show up late. If you show up late, I swear I'm leaving without you. Like, I was, like, strict. But that's because, you know, she has a habit of consistently being somewhat late up at like 545. I'm like, that's the way it is. Yeah, yeah. But there's a lot of right. There's a lot of things, but unfortunately there's nothing I can do. Obviously no, they're pet peeves and they get on my nerve. But I mean and sometimes I know now that who is like that. And so let's just say I have to meet them at six. I'll tell them 5:00 now, so that I know that they'll get there at six. Yeah, but my brain is so tricky that I actually think that they'll get there at 5:00, because they'll be the most random one time that they're on time. Right? That's my brain. Play a trick on me like that. So then I show up at five because I told this person five. Yeah. And they still show up at six. And then I'm like, why did I just let my brain convince me that they were going to actually be on time for the one time in the whole entire world, you know? You know, uh, speaking on that topic, I think that, um, a lot of the times when we have, like parties, especially when they're early right here at the house and let's say we set up, um, from 1 to 5 or 1 to 6. Right. And I know people sometimes say a little bit later, but the thing that gets me on on this specific topic that you're saying about being late is when we have the time from 1 to 6, let's say, and I get it, people will leave by like maybe 7 or 730, but then you have that one person or that one family that shows up like at six. At seven. Yeah, at 645. And things were supposed to be done at like six. But you start, you know, cleaning. And now they want to stay until like midnight until midnight and you're like super tired. Yeah. And then you clean up around them. And they see everybody else is gone and they still want to hang out. Don't be that person, you know. You see, everybody else is gone. Like, why are you still here? Well, you know, it's because we have obviously. And I don't know if it's something that we've learned from our business, but if a party starts at four, we're showing up at four. If it's. And sometimes we get there so early that we even the people go like, oh my God, you know, somebody who's gonna show up on time. And sometimes we help them even set up. Yeah. Or their finalizer set up. Right. But that's because we're so early and we're so on time that we expect everyone to be the same way, even if they don't do it. Anxiety. If I think I'm not going to make it on time, which I know you've you've seen me. Yeah. Like I get anxiety because I'm like, oh my gosh, we're going to be late. Like I start to freak out. Yeah. It's just something about me time. Are you doing the last one or am I doing my last? That was your last one. Okay, so here's my last one then. Um. Okay, so maybe this is very similar to the other one, but it's obviously um, it's different okay. So maybe the same. What do you think our relationship looks like to other people? Our overall relationship, what it looks like to other people. I think a lot of people, just because I've heard it in people have told us that they love the genuine relationship that we have together. That it doesn't look forced, that it doesn't look fake. You know that our relationship really looks like a relationship. Uh, that you could tell we actually really do get along, and we actually really do like each other, that it isn't something that's just played out on social media, let's just say. Yeah. Um, but I that's what I kind of feel that people. Okay. That's good. A positive outlook. Yeah. Okay, good. Yeah, I don't think I don't think people really have anything bad to say about. Or at least I've never. If there is, I've never heard it. You know, when everybody has their opinion, which is fine. But anything I've ever heard. Yeah, people have always come up to us and and people are always quick to ask us relationship advice because they like how our relationship is so much. Right. Well, there has been some people that think we're the opposite of. Who we. Who we really are. You know, there there have been some people that maybe think we're just a bad influence or something like that, but, you know. Really? No I didn't. Yeah. Oh, you I mean, you probably don't remember at the moment, but there have been. Well, see, it was it was a blip in my memory that I didn't. Yeah. Which obviously I'm just saying my, my good outweighs the bad. Yeah. Yeah. That's a good thing. That's a great thing. Um, but yeah, there has been obviously we don't dwell on that because we know, um, we know that every time we do hang out with somebody, we're always going to try to bring some sort of value to them in any way, shape or form that we can. Yeah. And then if you get to know us in real life. Correct. It's I mean, we really are the way we are. Like, we really do get along. Like you hardly ever see us fight like this just doesn't really exist. Right. I remember one time we were having kind of a disagreement. There was a party at our house, and, um. And it was something simple, but, like, I kind of yelled at you. You kind of yelled at me back, and then somebody in the party was like, oh my gosh, they actually do get in fights. But it was like something so simple. And of course, me and you, how we are. We got over it really quickly. It was literally like, you didn't take out the cooler or something stupid like that. You know that for the party. And and then it was me probably saying, like I told you earlier, you know, or something. And then but it sounded like a disagree, like a big disagreement type of deal. And, uh, the person was like, oh my gosh, they do get into fights. Like they were surprised because no one's ever seen me, like, maybe yell at you and you yell at me by our kids. Maybe. Yeah, that's because they used to live with us, but, um, and they just thought it was funny. But then after once we yelled at each other, we figured it out, and then we were on with the party, and that's never happened. Yeah, yeah, give it in. That's the good thing about our relationship is that we might have a disagreement and we might figure it out, but we are so quick about letting it go. Yeah. And that's that's a that's, um, that's a tip right there for a lot of people. You know, I think they have bottled emotions. You know, they, they, they hold that resentment and they hold the grudges and they hold the, the, um, I don't know, they just spent I've heard of people saying we haven't talked in a week or two weeks, you know, and I'm like, are y'all living together still? Like, oh, I sleep in the same bed. Um, you know, there's some stuff that obviously we just don't. They we. It's just not our dynamic. You know, I mean, it's hard. It really is hard to like, let it go, right. And be like, all right, take a deep breath, let it go. Open up your heart and just get it out, you know, and it's gone and it's gone. And you try to distract yourself and whatever, you move forward. Yeah. You know. So okay, that was it. That was. This was fun. That was great. Yeah. Very similar questions I know crazy. Yeah. But that's how it always is. Yeah. That's how it is. I'm just great about it. But yeah I know I appreciate everyone listening in. I hope you guys enjoy this episode. And um, we'll talk next week. We'll see what we bring next week. I know it's going to be interesting. Maybe more guests, maybe more guest. Yeah. I feel like people like guests. Yeah, we we have a few people in mind. We do. We just. So it might be you listening. It might be caller number five. Yeah. We just have to think of schedules, see which one works. But yeah. Yeah. All right guys, thank you so much for listening. Until next week. Yep. We love you. Love you. Shout bye. Thanks for tuning in to this episode of Unfiltered Us. 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